So you’re in a crazy or seemingly crazy ending of your relationship and want to rise above the nuttiness and move on or move towards a place of fixing things. I have no answers, but I can say for certain that finding and reestablishing love for yourself is a rather important ingredient (and not the selfish love), love for your children, and even love for your spouse (or estranged spouse).
You see, love softens the heart and allows you to heal and even think clearly.
I am under no illusion that love is this foggy, hazy, wonderworld that we can disappear too as there are practical matters of finances, healthcare, houses, cars, and more. But in the heat of detest nothing is accomplished hence my suggestion of putting the breaks on and finding a bit of love.
So today, I lifted text from Marianne Williamson as it spoke straight to the matter.
“Love alone is the meaning of my life”